The purpose of this page is to share personal information about myself with those who have spoken with who might have questions about my life past or present.
I will share spiritual thoughts and personal philosophies about life and love based upon my limited understanding.
I certainly do not disregard the philosophies of others unless they are so extreme or illogical as to not merit appreciation.
CHILDHOOD YEARS
I was born in St. Charles, Missouri on November 13, 1951. My parents were were travelling due to my father's job working in the gas pipeline construction industry. I lived in 27 states and Canada before I was 5 years old. Perhaps that life style instilled a bit of wanderlust in me.
My birthdate causes me to fall under the Scorpio sign of the Zodiac. I have never placed a great deal of faith in this, as so many people do, but I can hardly contradict this philosophy since so many traits of Scorpio do actually apply quite aptly to me.
My parents "settled" in Plainfield, Illinois when I was five years old. Dad still travelled with the pipeline, while Mom stayed home with the kids. I was the oldest of five. I have one brother, and three sisters each spaced out by two years. (My brother is the most "spaced out" of all of us...lol). By reason of birth order I was generally left in charge whenever Mom was shopping or away from the home.
My parents were strict disciplinarians which was in some ways a good thing and in some ways detrimental. I see kids today who are rebellious and disrespectful towards their parents who would benefit greatly by a good spanking. Spankings should be administered fairly and in a spirit of love, not anger. Modern parents do not understand this vital difference, so by throwing away corporal punishment they quite figuratively are "throwing the baby out with the wash". Not all children need to be spanked. I have raised 5 of my own. Some were so compliant they required very little discipine at all. One was so soft in spirit she cried to be scolded. Another was so self willed, there were times I believed one of us would not make it to her 16th birthday yet sane. Each child has to be treated in accordance with who they are.
I was a skinny and non-athletic child. I was not a bookworm either, although I did enjoy the Hardy Boys books and loved stories about animals. "Big Red" was one of my favorites. I also enjoyed any reference books about animals, amphibians, birds, etc. I was quiet and always in a daydream. School was difficult for me. Kids picked on me for various reasons. In the first grade I was made fun of for taking my teddy bear to school for show and tell. My teddy bear had always been my closest and safest companion. One thing I learned early in life is that kids can be cruel, and that those who are not, will seldom come to the rescue of those who are being picked on lest they themselves become victims.
At home I was the boss in the absence of our Dad ( a job I grew to hate). At school I was as obscure as possible so as to not be seen, yet I had this crazy sense of humor, usually involving puns or word play which often brought me to the limelight and often got me in trouble.
As a child, play time for me consisted of building roads and bridges in the sand and gravel. I loved "Tonka" toy trucks, tractors, cranes and graders. Due to my stature I never took a real interest in any sports until high school when I discovered I was good in gymnastics. As I grew older I enjoyed fishing and exploring the creek bank, examining the various types of frogs, turtles, fish, snails, plants etc. that I found there. One day I caught 2 Rock Bass which exceeded the state fishing record by several ounces each, but I would not discover that fact until I was in my twenties!
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